Quick answer these questions: How would you describe yourself? What are the most awesome things about you? What do you bring to a situation that you enter into (take your pick on the situation)? If you are stumbling over answering any of these questions, or would prefer not to, we have some work to do. I am going to make a wild guess (honestly not at all wild, but you got my sarcasm I am sure) that you could answer these questions without hesitation: What are the things you need to fix or work on about yourself? What are your least yummy qualities? What would you change about you if you had 3 wishes?
It is interesting how we can find the issues with ourselves way quicker than we can find what is fantastic and amazeballs. I have a hard time finding my areas of concern… mainly because I really enjoy all of me. Imagine what that feels like, to enjoy who you are. You wake up in the morning and you remember you are who you are and you smile. You are excited because you get to be this person all day. She is fun, funny, exuberant, energetic, healthy, active, loving and curious. She expects the best and most days gets it. She knows that anything is possible, that everything happens for a reason and that nothing is permanent. She is on her way and the way is the point. Imagine embodying that plus other delicious feelings, ideas, theories, etc. How hard would it be to worry, fear, dread, and lament? Pretty damn hard… and pretty damn useless.
First, find out what your light (you are light so find out more about yours) does when it enters a room. Does it get brighter, dimmer, is it turned off or is it shining on everything like the sun or the moon. Discover what people enjoy about you and see if it is the same thing or things you enjoy about you. Find out who you are when you are at your best… whatever you consider your best to be. Spend time asking yourself questions like you are actually interested in finding out the answer. Treat yourself like a beautiful stranger you would love to spend the rest of your life with. Have fun with you, learning you, catering to you and your every need. Then wake up to the you you would want to be… every day work to be all of the things you know about you that you love. Honestly, it isn't hard, you just need to be intentional about it. You cannot expect to get to the place where each morning you fall in love all over again with yourself if you are not willing to wake up and do whatever it is that is necessary to enjoy, cherish and appreciate all of you.
We are very, very special and deserve to be focused on completely. You aren't ever going to get the kind of love you can give from anyone else. Why are you withholding? Why are you hesitant to let it pour out of you into you and out again? We need everyone feeling special and great and loving unconditionally. Imagine if the world had all the love we are holding onto like there was no more to go around? Imagine if you took absolute wonderful care of you? What would that look like, how would that feel… how free would we all be?