Do you think someone is amazing? Do you like the dress they are wearing. How about their haircut? Did someone just walk past you and smell really delicious? Are you honored to be able to connect with a specific someone? Have you told anyone or any of them any of this? How often do you sing the praises of someone you feel is amazing, to them? When was the last time you went up to the person you admired, loved, were struck by and told them, to their face, that you thought they were great, awesome, smelled good, etc? This is something that we need to do, daily, at least. We all are in need of a boost of love.
I rarely get hit on. Maybe I don't recognize it all of the time, but to me it seems to be a very infrequent occurrence. I have been told that it was because people think that I wouldn't give them the time of day. Well, to that I say, how would you know if you don't even try? Think about it, if everyone thinks I am out of their league the one person that is bold enough to go for it has a pretty darn great chance. When you don't put the love out there the love never has a chance to bounce back and gain momentum as it returns to you. This is true for anything that you feel warm and fuzzy about. When you are appreciating someone, when you are feeling love for them, share it. The sharing supports love being abundant in the world and that reinforces the fact that the person being told these loving things is loved.
So tell that friend what you feel. Let your co-worker that you can count on know that they are amazing. Tell the guy with the cool hair that you think his hair is amazing. When you share your feelings of love for another (platonic or otherwise) you increase that love exponentially. Besides, even if the person has heard something loving about themselves, they never tire of being told that they are wonderful, brilliant, beautiful, a stunner, a great dresser, etc. Never think because someone is confident that you can get away with not telling them that you think they are the bomb diggity. They need it the most sometimes because everyone assumes that everyone else has told them these lovely things and maybe they don't want to hear the same loving thoughts again. Believe me, they do. The ones who support others needs the support too, almost more than anyone else.
Send out verbal and energetic love to those you encounter today. Trust that we all need love and that you have plenty to give and receive. Be bold and give it out without expectation. Then, wait for it…