Howdy! We have all felt stuck. We have all felt like we weren't able to get out of wherever we are. We have all annoyed our friends because our lack of action to move away from what is seemingly hurting us. The bottom line is you will stay where you are until you are ready to leave. Period. Know this. No one can make any choices for you and you cannot rush being ready to choose. There are things that you are learning, valuable things that you will never forget… it is hard to have perspective when you feel that you are in the middle of hell.
Remember that how someone behaves towards you is an example of how they are treating themselves. It is hard to remember to not take things personally when you are the one being treated one way or another… but we are all bringing to us what we need to learn from and that is the difficult reality that most would choose not to face. The universe hears us and has a completely different definition of love and compassion than the ones we would like them to have. The universe knows that love is giving you what you need to learn what you must in order to move forward. The universe doesn't play favorites, it isn't biased. It answers our soul's longing for growth and creates what we resonate.
Resonate. Resonate. Resonate. This is my message for you today. Imagine you are a guitar being strum. What notes will you produce if you were being played? What music does your heart make? If you were being played in a music hall, who would come to fill up the seats and listen? What type of crowd would line up around the block to hear one note from your symphony? Would you have people who were crying and lamenting being drawn to you? Would your audience be pensive or melancholy? Would it be a crowd that was filled with angst and anger? Or would you have a crowd that was so filled up with love and joy that you were lifted up by their presence as they are by yours? Resonate. Resonate. Resonate…on purpose. Because you do it anyway. Make the music you want to hear. That music you make changes the 'where you are' to the 'where you want to be'.
Have a great day!