Hi there! We really like knowing things. We get off on being knowledgable on this or that subject. We prefer to not look stupid, be an expert or have information that could be helpful. As we grow up we lose our sense of wonder and replace it with expectation and predictability. We want to know the outcome and the reason for it. We want to guess correctly what will happen because somewhere along the way we let fear take over as out jump off point. Fear needs to know, longs for safety, expects and never wonders. Fear knows that shit is gonna be shitty, or at least that 'a' equals 'b', and expects it.
When you jump off from a place of fear your curiosity plummets. You are no longer looking at the world with excitement. Investigating the unknown doesn't cross your mind because the unknown equals the unsafe. The unknown also equals you not looking good, or like you know, which is scary and not fun to anyone who values knowing as an ideal state of being. So when you think of being in the dark as being unsafe and looking ridiculous you are going to steer towards things that you feel safe and smart around. Those things that give you those feelings are what you are used to doing, what you have already mastered or experienced regularly at least.
Do you want to stay where you are? Is this a place you could live out your life, without change, comfortably and happily? If you have answered yes then remember to let everyone around you know that you have no intention of growing. That you have found the perfect moment and you plan on reliving it until life has ended for you. If you do desire something else you will need to do something else. You will need to shift something in your life in order to have your life shift.
When I talk about change, I don't mean cutting all of your hair off and moving to another country. You can simply start taking a different route to work. You can go to a different grocery store than you normally do. You could buy a coupon off of one of the 58 coupon sites that exist and use it for something you don't normally do. You can say yes to a situation you would normally say no to. It is about being open, doing what you don't know, being open to being curious. If you are comfortable, chances are you are not growing. That doesn't mean you get rid of anything in your life that keeps you comfy. You need comfy and uncomfy to balance you out. Stress is not where you want to live, but it does have its place.
I hope you can see a little more of the wonderful wonder there is to be curious about in the world today!!!