Howdy! Mediocrity is something that I don't buy into. I teach indoor cycle classes, 15+ per week. I ride 98% of the class only stopping to either drive a point home, adjust volume or help a rider out. I create individual playlists for each class unless it is on the same day but in a different studio. I also don't repeat a song within a 30 day period. I love variety and I strive for excellence and work towards perfection. I cannot tell you how often someone tries to discourage me from making as many playlists as I do or says that I work too hard. I have been asked if anyone cares that I make different mixes for each class. To that I respond with "I care." I have also been told that I am a bit extreme. Let me address all of these comments and opinions.
I am happy. Extremely. I don't desire anything to really be that different in this moment. I am doing what I know I am meant to each day and I am consistently shown appreciation for the love I pour into the work that I do. I don't believe that perfection is unreachable and I don't care that someone thinks of me as extreme. I am here to do what makes sense to me, not to you. Many people have trouble committing to much of anything and believe that it is impossible to be disciplined or consistent with any one thing. When they see someone who is dedicated to something and steadfast in their motivation to do it, there is a desire to drag them down, to bring them to the place where they are less focused, less driven, less ambitious. Somewhere we were told that being half-assed was normal and much more acceptable than being amazing. Somewhere we were told that it was impossible to be great at everything and so the best you could hope for was to be meh at most. Mediocrity became the only thing we worked for and in all honesty, when anyone went for the gold, they were looked at as crazy or too ambitious.
Well, you can be great at everything you do if you want to be. Chew on that. You can work your ass off for what you love and make it amazing. You can take care of your body like it is the only one you have and you cherish it… oh wait, it is the only one you have. Well, you can cherish it and respect what it does for you by not putting sh*t into it. You can make your mind a playground for love instead of a container of negative thoughts and feelings. You can see the best in others and be optimistic about the world. You can be dedicated to what is important to you and not let anything or anyone get in the way of it. You can actually shoot for the moon and not miss.
When you realize it isn't about what others are thinking or saying about you that matters really and you discover it is about you, yourself and you, things change. I care about doing my best work every time I have the opportunity to do work. I care about my name being attached to this or that class, client or situation. I want to be proud of what I do. I matter more than anyone telling me that I could do less. I don't want to be that person with that thought about the things that I love. I never asked anyone's opinion of me or whether or not I need to change how I am living my life, so your thoughts, if you want me to live differently, can stay in your head. If you want to send support or encouragement, then by all means do it!
If you have tried to talk someone out of being great, think about what the hell is going on for you. If you are someone who is told you need to do less (and it isn't because you are a workaholic or neglecting your Self in some way) then set a boundary and keep on keeping on. Keep shining, keep striving and keep being your perfect self.