Hello, When do you want to be who you want to be? What is stopping you from being that person right now? I always work with my clients to sketch out their ideal self. Who do you see yourself as, ideally and why? How does that person live their life; what do they eat, where do they live, what do they look like, who are their friends? When you look at the person who you want to become as already existing (which is true) you can begin to see reaching that goal as doable instead of 'pie-in-the-sky' dreaming.
We often believe that our ideal isn't doable, though we almost always have planted firmly in our minds what we would ideally like and who we would ideally like to become. Many times, we look at our ideals as goals that are not attainable. We accept mediocrity and believe that no one, or at least very few, can ever reach the point where they are living their ideal life, being their ideal self… at least not all of the time.
What if this weren't true? We get so caught up in the stories we tell ourselves, and others day in day out, that we believe them and see them as the only way. We believe that there are places we cannot reach, ideals we cannot meet. If we believed everything that we aren't doing now just isn't possible then nothing would ever change, there would be no advances in any area. 200 years ago many people wouldn't believe that computers would exist, or dreamed of a computer. Many times we are looking around to see if someone is doing what we want to do are being who we want to become. We look for someone to be an example for us. We forget that we are someone and we can be our own example by projecting out our idea of how our ideal person lives.
Try seeing that person you want to be as your example, your guiding light. If that person can do it, so can you. Start telling yourself the story that you are already there. Start choosing to live the life you would like to. Do it today, do it now.