Howdy!!! Picture this: You are driving, someone cuts you off. Now, think back to a time when you cut someone off. Have you ever done that? Did you mean it? Do you spend much of your time plotting ways to get under people's skin? Do you think other folks are running around trying to plot against you or upset you at the least?
When was the last time you got pissed off by the car in front of you? At your partner? Your friend? A family member? How many slights do you perceive in a day? What would happen if you didn't take offense?
When was the last time someone took offense to something you did or said? What if you responded with empathy and compassion? It only takes one person to change a dance. Taking into consideration that generally no offense is intended is a powerful tool as you evolve in this life of yours. Taking into consideration that we only take offense because we had expectations to begin with, or because we have our own judgements around something, or because we are feeling insecure.
Whether we are the ones annoying or being annoyed we need to remember that most people aren't here, and don't want to, torture us, and, when given a chance, would be more loving than not.
So let it go. Let being all worked up about what someone else is doing fade into the background. Enjoy the fact that you can relate. Enjoy being human. :)